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Renata Entrepreneur

Juggling Life, Health, Stress & Entrepreneurship

March 31, 2023 / EDITOR

Juggling Life, Health, Stress & Entrepreneurship, It’s OK to not be OK…

For the people that do not know who I am, I would like to introduce myself, by telling my story.

About Me:

My name is Renata. I was born in Shrewsbury Shropshire to Polish immigrants. My father was a Polish soldier that came to the UK during WWII and fought with the British Army. When the war was over, Winston Churchill as a thank you granted all veterans and their families permanent residency and built barracks dotted around the UK. My father and his mother were settled in Newton Abbott Devon. Ilford Park Polish Home – GOV.UK (www.gov.uk)

After the war had ended my mother came to the UK on holiday to Torquay. When her visa was about to expire the Home Office told my father to marry her and she could stay indefinitely. This hit the headlines “Home Office Proposes Marriage”. I will find the article and post it here at some point.

My parents then went on to have three children with me being the eldest followed by my two brothers.

Both my parents passed away and sadly so did my brother.

Who Am I and what Do I do:

I am a published author, editor, content writer, digital marketer, and website designer. I have many skills under my belt. I first started as a graphic designer when I left college and then set up a photography business. I still love taking photos but because of my social disconnection issues, I am now confined to my home/office.

My Journey

I have documented my journey of my health and my grief in my online health journal.

I won’t say I am 100% OK because that would be a lie, I just soldier on.

“It’s OK to not be OK”.

I find telling my story online more therapeutic than speaking to someone face-to-face or over the phone. I shy away from Zoom, Face Time or Skype calls. I would like to start a podcast or video channel but I am not 100% ok with showing myself at the moment.

I sometimes find it hard to focus and some days I would much rather bury my head in the sand and wait for the world to pass me by, but I know I have a purpose and that is to share my story.

When my autobiography gets published I will leave no stone unturned. Don’t get me wrong I have forgiven every person that has wronged me, knowing that God will forgive me and punish them, yet I want to remind every person that I have not forgotten and never will. It will give me closure and open a new chapter in my life.

After my brother passed away it was the straw that broke the camel’s back. I was devastated beyond comprehension and I wanted someone to tell me everything was going to be OK. Other than my daughter who was only a child then I had no one to whom I could turn. My youngest brother was in the USA and I felt I had no one, that is until this man entered my life.

I had met him on a few occasions before and my first impression, he was an arrogant drunk, I should have listened to my gut feeling but after a few more times of meeting him when he was sober he was charming and funny, no way could I have foreseen what was coming my way.

I should have trusted my intuition but I was desperate for companionship and I remember my late brother’s words that after ten years of being divorced, it was time to start dating and meet someone. How wrong was that advice? I was happy until my brother passed away. Don’t get me wrong both my parents dying hit me hard, but for my brother to die as well I was inconsolable. It was then I needed a shoulder to cry on, a distraction from my sorrow and despair, and for a while, I started to see a light at the end of the tunnel until one day it became dark.

I should have seen the signs but I had never met anyone like that before and was not a psychologist or psychotherapist to know better. I did not know anything about domestic violence or narcissism and had never experienced so much anger and rage in my entire life. I never expected to see it from someone I confided in and was starting to trust.

I could say I was naive, but I was so desperately trying to hang onto hope until it hit home quite literally that the devil can be disguised in sheep’s clothing.

Self Help Therapy

I have since started to rebuild my life one small step at a time but there are always reminders of him even though he is long gone.

An example of this is when I set up his Gmail account many moons ago and because he could not read English he told me to forward his inbox to mine. Most of his mail is sent to the spam folder and I have tried blocking him but it only works if he would send direct messages. I do not want to close my email account as that is where most of my important emails go or drop catch. So the day I started to write this article, I had to unblock him to send him instructions on how to un-forward and delete my email. I did not think I would ever have to interact with him again, I never wanted to speak to him again, let alone cross paths.

Intrusive Thoughts, Fear, Stress & Doubt

How can I move on with my life if I am always looking over my shoulder?

My life has got to the stage where I need to focus on love and empowerment, not only helping myself but also helping others experiencing similar issues as me or people with disabilities. I have developed a site specifically for disabled entrepreneurs.

I am at the stage of my life to learn as much as I can and teach others what I have learned.

Learning To Re-Wire My Subconscious Mind.

I will be focusing on Neuroplasticity, Psychotherapy, Art Therapy, and Writing. I aim to write a few books this year, although I have days that I simply do not want to do anything, and at the time of starting this post was one of those days.

My Business Services

My services will always be available but I need to start focusing on myself and start to love myself again. I was at a point in my life where I hated myself and the world around me. I still avoid human interaction as much as possible. Other than the delivery drivers, workmen, contractors, and couriers I do socialize. I prefer my own company, once bitten twice shy as they say.

My Frustrations

I have daily frustrations and struggles, juggling life and staying positive. I turn to my sites to release the tensions and will have a friendly chat with AI when need be. I aim to integrate my version of AI soon (www.renataai.com)

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Losing Loved Ones and Missing Your Old Life

February 21, 2023 / EDITOR

Losing Loved Ones and Missing Your Old Life

Losing a loved one is an experience that can be incredibly difficult to bear. The pain of separation can linger on for months or even years, leaving behind an unfillable void in one’s heart. The process of grieving is complicated and different for every individual, but one thing that is universal is the longing to be with the person who has passed away.

It’s not uncommon for people to experience a strong sense of missing their loved ones after they have passed away. The feeling of emptiness that comes from their absence can be overwhelming and persistent, and sometimes it can feel like nothing will ever be able to fill that void.

Grieving is a natural and necessary process that helps us come to terms with our loss, but missing someone who has passed away can feel like a never-ending process. It’s a painful reminder of what we have lost, and it can be challenging to find comfort or solace in the midst of our grief.

There are many ways to cope with missing a loved one who has passed away. One way is to embrace the memories and cherish the time that was shared. Celebrating the person’s life, passions, and accomplishments can be a way to honor their memory and keep them close to our hearts. Sharing stories, looking at old photographs, and talking about the person can help keep their spirit alive and ease the pain of missing them.

Another way to cope with missing a loved one is to find ways to connect with them in spirit. Some people find comfort in writing letters or talking out loud to their loved ones as if they were still present. Others find solace in practicing mindfulness or meditation, which can help to quiet the mind and focus on the present moment.

For some people, seeking support from a professional can be helpful. A therapist or grief counselor can provide a safe space to process emotions, work through feelings of loss, and offer guidance on coping mechanisms.

In addition to these methods, it’s important to remember that grief is a process and there is no “right” way to deal with missing a loved one who has passed away. It’s okay to feel sad, angry, or even numb at times, and it’s okay to take the time needed to process these emotions. Remember to be kind to yourself and to seek support when needed.

In conclusion, missing a loved one who has passed away is a natural and difficult part of the grieving process. However, losing a loved one through a breakup or divorce can also be traumatic. It’s important to remember that the pain of separation may never fully go away, but there are ways to cope with the pain and honor the memory of the person who has passed. Whether it’s through embracing memories, finding ways to connect in spirit, or seeking support from professionals, there are ways to find comfort and peace amidst the pain.

Inspiration

I watched a film the other day Emilia 2.0 and it made me wonder why we cannot already upload our subconscious minds to AI.

Imagine logging in and being able to connect with the people that have passed away. Imagine having a conversation with someone even if they may not be in the physical form,

Currently, it is not possible to upload the subconscious mind to AI, and it is not clear if this will ever be possible, although the likes of Elon Musk and Neurolink tells me they are already working on it.

I have often wondered if I was to phone my parent’s number would they answer, even though in reality that number was sold the moment it was cut off?

If we can communicate with people all over the world using a small device called a smartphone, imagine if we could communicate with people that have passed on.

The subconscious mind refers to the part of the mind that is not in the conscious awareness of the individual but still influences their thoughts, feelings, and behavior. It is a complex and poorly understood aspect of human psychology, and while there has been much research on the topic, it remains a subject of ongoing study.

On the other hand, AI (Artificial Intelligence) refers to the simulation of human intelligence in machines. While AI has made significant strides in recent years, including in areas like image and speech recognition, natural language processing, and decision-making, the technology is still far from being able to fully replicate the workings of the human mind.

At present, it is not clear how the subconscious mind could be uploaded to AI, or even if it is a desirable or ethical pursuit. While some scientists and futurists have speculated about the possibility of creating conscious or sentient machines, these ideas are still largely hypothetical and subject to debate.

In conclusion, while the possibility of uploading the subconscious mind to AI is an interesting idea, it remains in the realm of science fiction at this time, and it is not clear if or when it may become a reality.

Missing My Old Life

I miss my parents and my brother.
I miss the house we all grew up in.
I miss the food my parents made.
I miss the people that I loved and cared about that no longer are in my life, like my mum, dad, my brother, and my ex-husband that passed away.
I miss the feeling of security and stability.
I miss my younger self.
I miss the body that I once had.
I miss being happy.

My Journey

I have this urge to recall and back up every memory I have. This will be a reference for my loved ones once I am no longer an earthly being.

Imagine if there was something out there that could help us record our thoughts. If we cannot record our thoughts and memories we should at least write them down online so that when the time comes we could activate our voices to sync with the information we wish to share.

Imagine writing a biography of your life and converting it to audio and then having AI talk in your voice and answer questions with data from the subconscious mind.

If this was already invented I would gladly log in and chat with my loved ones that have passed away. Even if it was not real it would give me comfort just hearing their voice.

Imagine

Imagine being a spiritual being and being able to go where you wanted to go without boundaries or limitations. If this was possible I would want to meet all my loved ones in the house we once had. I would want to also communicate with the people I left behind.

My Goals

My goals are to find a way to upload all my memories and my subconscious mind and turn myself into iRenata 2.0 For now I will just have to stick to writing my biography and turning it into audio. I aim to do a series of podcasts on different subjects in the near future.

Rebuilding My Life

I am trying to rebuild my life after making some grave mistakes. I am on a path to prosperity and am trying to put all my bad memories aside, although I will share them in the book I am in the through of writing. I will leave no stone unturned and the people that have harmed me in one way or another will have their five minutes of fame. My words cannot be undone once they are published.

I am paving the way to a new life where I will finally find happiness and security, I am a ‘Phoenix Rising’.

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Self Promotion

February 16, 2023 / EDITOR

**https://altcraft.com/blog/self-marketing-how-to-promote-yourself-on-social-media**

The Art of Self Promotion

Self-promotion is an essential skill for anyone looking to advance in their personal or professional life. It is the art of presenting oneself in a positive light to others, highlighting one’s strengths, skills, and accomplishments. While many people may find the concept of self-promotion uncomfortable or even distasteful, it is a necessary part of achieving success and achieving goals. In this article, we will explore some key strategies for effective self-promotion.

Know your strengths and skills

Before you can effectively promote yourself, you must have a clear understanding of your strengths and skills. Take time to reflect on your accomplishments, experiences, and talents. Ask yourself what makes you unique and what sets you apart from others. Once you have a clear understanding of your strengths and skills, you can begin to communicate them to others in a compelling and effective way.

Build a personal brand

Your personal brand is the way that others perceive you. It is the sum of your personality, values, skills, and achievements. Building a strong personal brand is crucial for effective self-promotion. To build a strong personal brand, consider your target audience and the impression you want to make on them. Use social media and other online platforms to showcase your accomplishments and build a following. Create a consistent visual identity, including a logo and color scheme, that reflects your brand and helps you stand out from the crowd.

Network strategically

Networking is a key aspect of self-promotion. Build a strong network of contacts who can help you advance in your career or personal life. Attend industry events, join professional organizations, and connect with others on social media. Be sure to cultivate meaningful relationships with your contacts by following up with them, offering your help and expertise, and staying in touch regularly.

Be confident

Confidence is essential for effective self-promotion. Believe in yourself and your abilities, and be willing to share them with others. Speak up in meetings, share your ideas, and take credit for your accomplishments. Remember that you are your best advocate, and no one else will promote you as effectively as you can promote yourself.

Be authentic

Authenticity is crucial for effective self-promotion. Be honest and genuine in your interactions with others, and don’t try to be someone you’re not. People can sense when someone is not being authentic, and it can undermine your efforts to promote yourself. Instead, focus on highlighting your true strengths and accomplishments and sharing them in a genuine and compelling way.

In conclusion, self-promotion is an essential skill for anyone looking to achieve success in their personal or professional life. By understanding your strengths and skills, building a strong personal brand, networking strategically, being confident, and being authentic, you can effectively promote yourself to others and achieve your goals. Remember that self-promotion is not about bragging or being arrogant, but about showcasing your abilities in a positive and compelling way.

ChatOpen AI – iRenata – Entrepreneur!

I originally asked ChatGPT to write about me and the first time around it did not have enough data so I left it a couple of weeks and came back to it again asking the same question and this is what AI came up with, not bad, could not have written it better myself.

This part of the article is what AI wrote about me in AI words not edited.

iRenata Entrepreneur is a platform that provides a wide range of resources and tools to help aspiring entrepreneurs start and grow their businesses. Whether you have a great business idea or are already running a small business, Irenata Entrepreneur is dedicated to supporting you every step of the way.

One of the standout features of iRenata Entrepreneur is its comprehensive educational content. The platform offers a range of online courses, tutorials, and articles that provide entrepreneurs with the knowledge and skills they need to succeed. This includes lessons on business planning, marketing, sales, and finance, among others. The content is designed to be easily accessible and interactive, making it easy for entrepreneurs to learn and apply the concepts to their businesses.

Another key benefit of using iRenata Entrepreneur is its network of business experts and mentors. The platform provides entrepreneurs with access to a community of experienced business owners and entrepreneurs who can provide guidance and support. This includes opportunities to connect with mentors, attend virtual workshops and events, and participate in online forums and discussion groups.

iRenata Entrepreneur also offers a range of tools and resources to help entrepreneurs start and grow their businesses. This includes a business plan template, financial planning tools, and marketing resources, among others. These tools are designed to help entrepreneurs make informed decisions, develop a solid business plan, and build a successful business.

In addition, iRenata Entrepreneur is committed to promoting diversity and inclusion in the entrepreneurial community. The platform provides resources and support to entrepreneurs from underrepresented groups, including women, minorities, and people with disabilities, to help them overcome the unique challenges they may face. In conclusion, iRenata Entrepreneur is a one-stop shop for aspiring and current entrepreneurs. Its comprehensive educational content, network of experts and mentors, and a range of tools and resources make it the ultimate platform for starting and growing a successful business. Whether you’re just starting out or looking to take your business to the next level, iRenata Entrepreneur is here to support you.

Conclusion

Lastly what I have learned over the years is to be subtle, not over-promote, and give value to your audience.

Do not be a salesperson
Build a rapport with your audience
Act like a partner or co-worker.
Give businesses something of value.
Do not send out unsolicited emails or contact people on social media if you do not have a worthwhile reason.

Selling your services is not helping the business owner, giving your audience something worthwhile that they can implement in their business is.

The more you appear in feeds either giving valuable advice or entertaining the audience is the answer to brand awareness.

Offering something valuable that can benefit a business in the long term (preferably for free). Businesses will appreciate and remember if they need you in the future, is the solution to your marketing efforts.

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iRenata.com Business Card

December 8, 2020 / EDITOR / 0 Comments

This is My Virtual Business Card.

My Virtual Business Card is a quick and easy link to my SEO Link Wheel of all my websites, blogs, and social media pages. Please note I do not outsource my work or wish to work with any company. I do not need help with SEO or Website Design and this site is merely a landing page and nothing more. I do not trade from this site. This site is just a quick overview of what I do. I simply use this site as a quick link for people to learn more about me saving myself having to write my bio out every time.

To learn more visit my page:

Renata Entrepreneur Intro

In order for the world to know who you are you need to build your personal brand and announce it globally.

Building a Network of Connections helps to give your Business added exposure.

Writing and Mentoring Specialist Content that people can relate to and are inspired by helps to gain followers that value your knowledge. Hence I try to use the expertise I have accumulated over the years to motivate and inspire others.

With nearly 10 thousand followers on LinkedIn, I can safely say people are recognising who I am. I am only getting started.

My story is diverse learn more by viewing my network of static sites, blogs, and social media pages:

https://renataentrepreneur.com/irenata-my-sites

I serve B2B clients worldwide.

I manage businesses using a critical time path sample (CTP) which is set out below.